Nikki Butler - The Autistic Joyologist/The Importance of Healthy Boundaries (and how to create them)

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The Importance of Healthy Boundaries (and how to create them)

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  • 4 Lessons

This mini video series on healthy boundaries is for you if you’ve been stuck in a cycle of people-pleasing that you want to break free from. Across three videos, you’ll explore: What boundaries are and why they matter. How to set boundaries in different areas of your life, from work to relationships. Practical tips on how to communicate and enforce your boundaries confidently Start creating the balance you deserve!

Does this sounds like you?

You’ve spent years bending over backwards to meet everyone’s needs but your own.

You’re the reliable one, the ‘yes’ person, and while it might look like you’ve got it all together, inside you’re drowning in burnout, resentment, and exhaustion.

You’ve given so much of yourself that you barely recognise your own needs anymore—and when you do, you feel guilty for even thinking about putting yourself first.

You fear that if you set boundaries, you’ll be seen as selfish or unkind.

You’re terrified that saying “no” will lead to conflict or rejection, so instead, you keep saying “yes,” even though every fibre of your being is screaming for rest.

And now, you’re at a breaking point—wondering how much longer you can keep going like this without losing yourself completely.

This Mini-Series is For You if.....

  • Struggle with people-pleasing and constantly put others’ needs ahead of your own

  • Feel burnt out, resentful, and emotionally drained from over-giving

  • Have difficulty saying “no” or setting boundaries, out of fear of rejection or conflict

  • Feel like you’ve lost touch with your own needs, desires, and goals

  • Want to create more balance in your relationships, work, and personal life

  • Long for the freedom to live life on your terms, without guilt or fear

What if you could experience

Imagine waking up in the morning feeling energised and at peace because you’ve created the space you need to thrive.

What if you could interact with others—friends, family, colleagues—without feeling like you're being stretched too thin?

Picture yourself confidently saying “no” when something doesn’t serve you, without feeling that pang of guilt or fear.

In this mini video series, you’ll gain:

  • Clarity on what boundaries really are and why they are essential to protecting your energy and well-being

  • A clear understanding of where you need boundaries in different areas of your life—from work to relationships—so you can stop feeling pulled in a million directions

  • Practical tools to communicate and implement boundaries in a way that feels true to you, without the fear of guilt or rejection

  • Relief from burnout and exhaustion, as you learn how to navigate life with boundaries in place to protect you, from a place of balance and calm.

  • Confidence to finally put yourself first, knowing that it’s not selfish but necessary for your well-being

This series is about more than just learning to say “no”—it’s about reclaiming your energy, your time, and your life.

You deserve to live a life that feels good to you, without the constant pressure to please others. Let me help you find that balance.

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